The ones I am on about have been so loyal to this other person, they have stood up for her and not entered into a conversation when they could have just joined in. Sad, sad, sad....and yet they have been true to themselves so they have nothing to approach themselves about at all. Now the lies are being shown and I wonder why we have been so naive.
Aw well, karma is a great thing so lets hope it shines above every other thing.
Life is funny but to be honest I do not really think that loyalty is abundant with many people, some do not have the courage to stand up for what is right they follow like little lambs and then they go to the winning side. That side wont alter because there is so much wrong with it, at this moment in time it seems like a dictatorship and if you do not agree then you are out!! As simple as that....
So let me uplift myself and think of something great, but wait, what is great at this moment in time?
Our Louise would have celebrated her 50th birthday last 13th September, 2017, she so wanted to be here for it but sadly as I have said, she passed away.
At the beginning of the year her dad, my husband Rob, also passed. Now we had him cremated and buried at the cemetry in the village. I didnt like the position he was in, it grieved me as it was behind a rather large cross which was very unsafe. To try and alter the situation I rang the council and told them that the cross was unsafe and that there wasnt any room for us to stand when a stone was laid. He told me that the cemetry was filling up and that it was just filling in spaces. I told him that that was my husband he was talking about and that he was worthy of more than a filler upper. Anyway short of spending out more cash nothing could be done. I felt like digging him up and bringing him home.
When I said to the Stonemason about it he suggested that we turn the stone around the other way, this is what we did. It was near a pathway but over the hedge was the recycling bins. There was a lovely round grassy area which I looked at and wondered why they hadnt used that if the cemetry was getting full.
Anyway when our Louise went she was the 2nd one to be placed on the round area. I had tried to get her near Rob but it wasnt to be. So I rang up the council and asked them if we could move Rob up with Louise. The answer was yes. After a few forms and cash being exchanged he was moved.
Now the area was originally grass but the council have stoned it, the two are near the pathway and I have to admit that I am very pleased. They also overlook the sea at Westward Ho!
Now on Rob's we placed an Angel with the words "in the arms of an Angel", on Louise's we had a Robin set next to her name.
When Louise and George were in the unit where they were placed after being made homeless, long old story, they werent allowed to have visitors and came under a set of rules. This was whilst the council were supposed to get her a permanent home. Well as I live over an hours ride away, I would ring Louise two or three times a day to make sure she was ok. She would tell me that she was outside the unit in her wheelchair feeding a Robin. This little soul would jump up on her footplate and Louise took great pleasure in attending to it. Before the casket was taken into the crematorium a little Robin passed the funeral car. It was as though Louise was saying "its ok we are still here".
All her friends remembered her birthday and put lovely words upon her facebook, they were/are loyal friends and they looked out for her. She was mum to all......
Ah well such is life, another day dawneth and it will soon be Christmas.......
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